Educating Sabre
A friend of mine sent me some great stuff via email this morning. I mean, seriously, great stuff. Interesting stuff. Educational stuff.
He tells me that there’s tons of this stuff out there, all of these guides for guys for dating. Except, see, they aren’t really guides for dating. More like guides for how to be a total douche bag and get laid a lot.
Awesome.
In short, the premise is that the more elusive you are, the more she’ll want you. The more you don’t call her, the more you pretend you don’t notice her, the more “busy” you make yourself, the more she’ll throw herself at you. It’s all just one big game. And who wins is he who gets laid the most.
Or something.
Some guys tell me this shit works, I’ve heard more from my guy friends about “power structure” and “keeping them guessing” than I care to admit. And I guess it must or there wouldn’t be so much information online devoted to treating women like toys.
Here’s the catch though. The women who have self-esteem and a sense of worth? The ones who are solid and moving somewhere in their life? They aren’t going to like your little game, gentlemen. And eventually they’ll get tired of playing and they’ll wander off and find someone else to play with.
Someone who treats them with respect and courtesy. Someone who knows how to show a woman that he truly cares for her and wants to be with her.
Just a thought.